In life, some people will make you angry; but don’t let them get under your skin. Keep calm, don’t lose your temper, maintain your peace.
In life, trials and challenges will come, not because God has abandoned you, but because trials and challenges will lead to your growth. You are being moulded for greatness and so you must be pushed beyond your comfort.
In life, some friends will disappoint you and maybe even leave you. Don’t let this make you second guess yourself or make you feel like a reject, some people were never meant to stay. Love on people but don’t let them define you.
In life, your own inner voice will fight you, sometimes you will think negative thoughts and in fear tell yourself «It’s too late», «You are too old», «You don’t have the papers to succeed», «You keep making mistakes». Learn to shut up that negative voice.
In life, temptations will come, you will be tempted to go back to your old habits, tempted to go back to the ex you know you should keep off, tempted to go back to your old lifestyle, to act like you have not outgrown some things. Don’t! If you keep giving into temptation, you will never make progress; but the more you learn to say no, the stronger you will become.
In life, shortcuts will be presented to you. Cons and corrupt people will come your way to lure you with get rich quick strategies, some might offer you success in exchange for sexual favours. Don’t take this route, it leads to ruin after the short lived gratification.
In life, you will find reasons to complain, especially when things don’t go your way; but instead of complaining, be thankful and learn. The right attitude will save relationships, help you find solutions, make you more attractive and less stressed.
In life, many people will ask for your audience and demand things from you, some will want to use you, others to waste time with you in unconstructive dates and meetings, others because they are lost will want you to to get lost too, others will just bring you drama. Learn to say NO. Not every request should be granted.
In life, many companies and brands will want to sell things to you. There will be so many options of things to buy. Have discipline. Don’t throw away your money impulsively. Don’t buy things you don’t need, don’t squander your money to win the approval of fake friends, don’t sink into debt just to show to people who don’t matter that you have made it. Make sound financial decisions.
In life, you will see some people and your peers doing better than you, you might compare yourself with them and feel like you are lagging behind. Know that others are also admiring you including those you are admiring. Walk your journey. Everything has its time, every person has their moment. Jealousy only pulls you back but putting in the effort in your own journey will bring fulfilment.
In life, you will look back at this year and either be proud of you or regret major choices you made. Have the future in mind.
✍️ EYA Oliver Uchenna®️







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