RULES TO A HAPPY & SMART LIFE.

1. Speak less and listen more. And when you have something to say, mean it and people will be eager to hear you talk.
2. Never argue with people on subjects like religion, politics, and controversies. You can just agree with them or ignore them and go away. If you wish to argue with them on those subjects, they will drag you to mud.
3. Think before you speak. Rushing to say something without thinking about it first can result in saying something you will regret later.
4. Be humble and polite to others. No matter how they treat you. In the future, they will regret it.
5. Control your emotions. You need to keep their emotions at the backseat while letting logic drive the car.
6. Do not reveal your next move to anyone. No one can attack what they don’t known.
7. Don’t speak about yourself. Resist shifting the focus to you.
8. Always make eye contact and be confident while talking to others. Maintain eye contact for 50 percent of the time while speaking and 70% of the time while listening.
9. Don’t ever try to copy someone. Be unique.
10. Do not start something you cannot offer full dedication.
11. Silence is the best answer to h@ters. Stop feeding them with the attention they need.
12. Train yourself for the ability to come up with great opinions. Be very analytical and this will help you see things differently. Have the reasons why you do things the way you do. Be free to see things in your own unique way.
13. Don’t follow the mob/crowd blindly. Always take decisions based on facts and logic. Be bold enough to choose your path.
14. Avoid the dramas of the world. When it comes to drama and manipulation, avoid it like a plague.
15. Don’t hesitate to ask meaningful questions. It shows that you are paying attention as well as being interested in the conversation.
16. Don’t be always available for others. Always available equals to easily abvsed.
17. Keep yourself engaged in something. Be Dynamic. Never try to remain the same and become forever revolving.

Warning! Being enigmatic doesn’t mean everyone would like you. Be ready to be h@ted by many, but note that enigmatic people either address it and move on to other things.

✍️ EYA Oliver Uchenna®️