When your daughter starts having a meltdown, flailing, and screaming that she’s not going to school, she’s not trying to give you a hard time. She’s just nervous about the day ahead at school.â£
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When your son screams, «I hate you,» and runs to the other room over not-good-enough pancakes, he’s not trying to give you a hard time. He’s just frustrated.â£
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When your daughter fights with you over what to wear to school, she’s not trying to give you a hard time. She just wants more control in her life.â£
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Most of the time, their outbursts aren’t about us.â£
They love us more than anyone.â£
It’s about them being unable to deal with their big emotions.â£
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I know it’s hard to remember this while it’s happening, and we’re human ourselves.â£
We snap,â£
get angry,â£
and overwhelmed,â£
but what if we shared our calm instead of joining in on their chaos?â£
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They don’t mean to upset us.â£
They’re doing the best they can with the skills they have.â£
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